HAVING PROPER SELF LOVE
Someone who does not love himself becomes very dangerous to the people living around him as he can even sieve to be a family man. In the current world we are living in it is very hard always to be appreciative of all that happens in our day to day life. Co-workers, friends and what you say but you will be a big determinant on how you love yourself. When you look at yourself sometimes maybe you see faults in your life, and this may turn out to be fatal in your personal life. The bad thoughts make someone have low self-esteem and ends up being bad in your day to day life. Low self-esteem comes about when you do not learn to appreciate yourself, even with a funny comment from a friend or keep on dwelling on little things that end up ruining all you up.
People who are suffering from this stuff lead someone to have more problems and even mostly get involved in drug abuse and alcohol problems. They get bad jobs because they don’t believe in themselves to doing good jobs, so they will take up anything that comes they way. The life of such people is not always the best. Unless you learn to love yourself then nothing really can change in your life. When someone attends an alcohol rehab program they are shown the best way to love themselves. When you do not learn on how to love yourself then you end up hating yourself. Having low self-esteem may be caused by many things which of them sometimes come from out previous life even from our lives when we were young.
IF you were raised up seeing your parents always fighting, then that might affect the way you handle your lifeA family that is not well established financially then this makes the child not be able to receive the care or the things he wants, and this sometimes will drastically affect them. Intimidation from your coworkers might affect you and make you have low self-esteem.When you get fired from your job or when you have someone gets fired because of you, and you blame yourself.
However life happens one should be content will the good things. Our views on life cannot be diverted over a fortnight It is a gradual process that takes time and that you need to put the effort in. You need to find ways on how you can be able to raise your self-esteem. You should learn to be patient to make sure that you get what you want in life. Giving a tap on your own back is a good way of starting to appreciate the work you do and the effort you put. Pray when you wake up in the morning and look in the mirror and tell that person you look at in the mirror that you are going to make it and be great.